Relationships · Healing · Emotional growth · Invisible patterns
Love should not require losing yourself.
Fairy Godmother is an emotional education platform for adults, but specially for women: healing from heartbreak, understanding how relationships really work, and seeing the invisible patterns that shape love, desire, trust and even money — so connection never costs you yourself.
How I can help you
Three ways to work together
Choose the level of support that fits you right now.
Guided journeys
Transformation programmes
Self-paced bilingual programmes for heartbreak recovery, emotional dependence, neurodivergent dating, sexual wellbeing, midlife reinvention and understanding relationships.
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Support
One-to-one guidance with me: book a 45-minute session on its own, or add it to any programme at a reduced bundle price. Psychoeducational coaching, not therapy.
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Free resources
The Heart Recovery Test™, Relationship Pattern Map™, free guides and The Fairy Godmother Journal — tools you can use today without buying anything.
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The Heart Recovery Test™
Eighteen questions, a few honest minutes, and a clear picture of where your heart currently is in its recovery. Not a diagnosis — a starting point.
Simple steps
How it works
A clear path from where you are now to the support that fits you.
Step 1
Take the free test
The Heart Recovery Test™ gives you an honest picture of where your heart is — and which programme matches your situation.
Start the testStep 2
Choose your programme
Each programme is self-paced, bilingual and built around real psychological patterns — not generic advice.
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Add one-to-one guidance
Want personal support? Book a 45-minute guidance session on its own, or bundle it with your programme at a reduced price.
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Original work, built slowly
21-Day Heart Recovery Journey
Kintsugi Heart™
You don’t have to erase the relationship to heal from it. You can transform what happened into part of your strength.
For anyone healing from a breakup, rejection, separation, unrequited love or the loss of a relationship.
Relationship & Dating Confidence for Neurodivergent Women
Loved & Understood™
You do not need to become less neurodivergent to be loved.
For neurodivergent women — autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, anxious or late-identified — who want genuine romantic connection, with clarity instead of guesswork.
Emotional Strength & Healthy Relationships for Men
Strong Hearts™
Being emotionally strong doesn’t mean feeling less. It means knowing what to do with what you feel.
For men who find it hard to talk about emotions because it feels like weakness.
Learn to Create Genuine Attraction & Connection
The Connection Code™
You cannot make someone love you. You can learn how to create the conditions for genuine connection.
For men who want to meet someone real and become a partner worth staying with.
Reconnect With Your Body. Discover Your Pleasure. Own Your Sexuality.
The Pleasure Code™
Pleasure without shame. Sexuality without prejudice. Connection without losing yourself.
An educational sexual-wellbeing and sexology programme, designed primarily for women.
From Emotional Dependence to Emotional Freedom
Free to Love™
The aim is not to teach you to need no one. It is to help you love someone without losing yourself.
For anyone who knows a relationship is hurting them and still cannot step away — and for anyone who wants to love without disappearing inside it.
Understanding Men: Desire, Value & Real Investment
Desired & Chosen™
Making a man desire you is not the same as making a man invest in you. This programme teaches the difference.
For women who want to understand attraction and attachment honestly — without games, scripts or Instagram tactics.
For Men: Desire, Respect & Genuine Connection
Understanding Women™
You do not need a script. You need to understand what safety, desire and consistency actually feel like from the other side.
For men who want to attract and keep a healthy relationship through understanding rather than technique.
An Emotional Journey Through Midlife, Menopause, Love & Reinvention
The Woman I’m Becoming™
You are not disappearing. You are becoming.
For women in their forties, fifties and beyond who feel that the woman they were no longer fits — through perimenopause, menopause, divorce, an empty nest, a changing body or a changing marriage.
Age-Gap Love Without Shame — and Without Losing Your Judgement
Love Beyond Age™
You’re not too old to be desired, chosen, loved — or to begin again.
For women loving, dating or falling for a much younger (or much older) partner, including relationships across countries and cultures.
When Chemistry, Anxiety & Love Become Confusing — and How to Find Your Way Out
Addicted to the Butterflies™
You don’t have to choose between passion and peace. You can learn to tell the intensity born of connection from the intensity born of the fear of losing it.
For anyone who keeps falling for the wrong person, feels addicted to the highs of an inconsistent connection, or confuses anxiety with passion.
Boundaries & Emotional Self-Regulation — How to Stay in Love Without Disappearing Inside It
Loving Without Losing Yourself™
A boundary is not a way to change the other person. It is the place where you end and they begin — and love needs that line to exist.
For anyone who says yes while meaning no, swallows real needs to keep the peace, or loses themselves a little more in every relationship.
What you receive
What’s included in every programme
Built to feel personal, not mass-produced. Every programme purchase gives you more than content — it gives you direct support.
Optional 1:1 guidance
Add a private 45-minute session to any programme at a reduced bundle price — or book one whenever you need focused support.
Lifetime access
Return to the lessons, workbook and reflection tools whenever you need them — across devices.
Private reflection tools
Journals, check-ins and guided exercises designed for the specific emotional patterns in each programme.
Email support
Reach out if you get stuck. I read every message and reply with care, usually within two working days.
Bilingual & confidential
All content is available in English and European Portuguese. Your data and reflections are never shared.
Psychologically informed
Every lesson is grounded in attachment theory, emotional regulation and clinical sexology — not quick fixes.
Kind words
What readers say
Feedback shared by people who took our free assessments — published with permission.
Common questions
Is this for me?
A few honest answers to the questions that usually come up before someone begins.
Is this for me?+
These programmes are for adults who want to understand their relationships more clearly — whether you are healing from heartbreak, repeating painful patterns, rebuilding confidence, or trying to love without losing yourself. They are educational, not a substitute for therapy or psychiatric care.
How is this different from therapy?+
Therapy explores your history in depth, often over months or years, and can diagnose and treat mental-health conditions. Fairy Godmother offers structured emotional education: clear frameworks, reflective tools and practical guidance to help you change specific relationship patterns. Many people do both.
Do I get lifetime access?+
Yes. Once you purchase a programme, it is yours to keep. You can revisit the lessons, workbook and reflection tools whenever you need them.
What happens after I buy?+
You receive immediate access to the programme content and can start the first lesson right away. If you added a 1:1 Guidance Session, you can book it from the sessions page whenever you are ready.
Can I do this if I am still in a relationship?+
Absolutely. Many people begin while still in a relationship, especially when they want to understand patterns like people-pleasing, anxiety, emotional dependence or difficulty trusting. The work is about you, not about leaving anyone.
Is my information private?+
Yes. Your account, journal entries and reflections are private and encrypted. The only thing I see is what you choose to share in a one-to-one session or by email.
Please read
Fairy Godmother offers relationship education and coaching-style exercises. It is not therapy, diagnosis or medical treatment. If you are in danger or in crisis, contact your local emergency services or a qualified professional.
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